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They were living the suburban dream, so what was her problem?
"When I started reading about polyamory I wondered if it might be the solution, so I brought it up with my husband.
There's her and Joe; her and Karl; Karl and Joe; and her, Karl and Joe.
"We hang out at home together, sometimes we'll go out for dinner.
Now Sue insists on a strict schedule for Caleb's visits to Ana, and permission has to be sought for extra date nights.
Famous polyamorists include billionaire Warren Buffett, writer Neil Gaiman and singer Amanda Palmer, and the late William Moulton Marston, who created Wonder Woman as an amalgam of his two loves.
A cornerstone of polyamorous relationships, unsurprisingly, is communication.
When polyamorous people tell you their way of life is not for the faint-hearted, they're not flipping kidding."Yes, we're all a bit nuts," *Samantha, 35, says of her own complicated but contented domestic life with a girlfriend who also has a boyfriend."We have some basic tenets that we live by. This means that if any of us chooses to engage in physical activity with a person outside the group, or decides to pursue a relationship outside the current structure, we do so with the greatest possible respect for everyone else and their feelings." In New Zealand there are anywhere from 1000 active polyamorists to, well, who really knows?
Attempts to define polyamory (literally "many loves", or consensual non-monogamy) as a social movement are laughed off by some polyamorists, but there is no question that the lifestyle is gaining prominence as people learn the name for their feelings.