Dating courtship and engagement
If an American boy goes out to dinner with a Chinese girl and does not pay for her meal, the locals will view him he as having lost "face" or social status and they will regard him as a poor dating candidate.Similarly, a girl who goes out for dinner with a Chinese boy and offers to pay for his meal or "go Dutch" could be viewed unfavorably.The engagement of Britain’s Prince Harry to actress Meghan Markle is raising eyebrows on both sides of the Atlantic for a particularly British set of reasons: She’s a biracial woman who will be the first American divorcée to marry into the royal family in nearly 81 years.
Many American teenagers expect to date several people before they settle down with one person, and they may view dating during their teenage years as primarily for fun.
But it won’t end the widespread public interest in the couple.
That’s not just a reflection of Harry’s checkered public image (a British soldier who served in Afghanistan, Harry had years earlier sparked controversy for attending a costume party in Nazi regalia).
Sex isn't always an easy topic to discuss with teens, but if your teenager is or might be sexually active, it is important for them to understand how different the expectations about sex are likely to be in China than at home.
Because dating is a precursor to marriage in traditional Chinese culture, the concept of casual sex is foreign, except among Westernized young people in the largest cities.